When it comes to numbers and guest lists, we know etiquette can get a little sticky. Take this reader’s question into consideration…
I have a wedding invitation etiquette question. I sent out save the date cards a few months ago. If someone tells me that they cannot attend the wedding based on the save the date card, do I still send them a wedding invitation?
Thanks so much for writing in, Courtney!
Luckily, this etiquette question has a pretty simple solution. Our experts agree that it’s still necessary to send a formal wedding invitation, even if your guest tells you they won’t be able to attend after receiving your save the date. Not only is it a nice formality, but leaving them off your invite list after you’ve already sent them a save the date may result in (easily avoidable) hurt feelings. Plus, you never know if their plans will change!
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