A good friend of mine just returned from Las Vegas, where he and his buddies had an entire week of bachelor mayhem. I tried to get him to spill all of his secrets, but all I really managed to find out was that the boys partook in a lot of drinking, a lot of breakfast buffets and one night of the thing that strikes fear into the hearts of many brides-to-be—a strip club.

Have you and your fiancé discussed what you are comfortable with during your bachelor and bachelorette parties? At what point does a bachelor party cross the line into inappropriateness? Rant or rave about it!

Would you ever wear a labeled tee or tank? You know, the ones that have “Bride” or “Groom,” or things like “Just Married” on them. Well, previously I thought I’d never want to tell the world who I was, but these adorable tees have made me reconsider. Personalized shirts are also a great gift for your wedding party–give them out before your night out so they can wear them at the bachelorette party. (photos: Just Married bling tank from Victoria’s Secret, Bachelorette Party in Progress T-shirt from Zazzle, Bride T-shirt from Etsy: Tattletaledesigns, Bride to be T-shirt from Just Jen.)

Then, match your bridal party gifts with this appropriately fun and wildly colorful invitation for a memorable night with the ladies!