Comments on: Rant or Rave: Inviting the Ex http://blog.weddingpaperdivas.com/rant-or-rave-inviting-the-ex/ Wedding News, Articles & Guides On Invitations, Planning, Cards & Etiquette Thu, 08 Jan 2009 13:40:03 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: saundra, event engineer http://blog.weddingpaperdivas.com/rant-or-rave-inviting-the-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-822 saundra, event engineer Fri, 19 Sep 2008 16:37:47 +0000 http://blog.weddingpaperdivas.com/?p=1372#comment-822 I think it all depends how long ago the breakup was, how things have moved forward from there and if everyone involved is a secure, level headed adult. Then there are no problems! I think it all depends how long ago the breakup was, how things have moved forward from there and if everyone involved is a secure, level headed adult.

Then there are no problems!

]]> By: Jackie White http://blog.weddingpaperdivas.com/rant-or-rave-inviting-the-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-820 Jackie White Fri, 19 Sep 2008 16:17:24 +0000 http://blog.weddingpaperdivas.com/?p=1372#comment-820 I feel that if I were truly over an ex I wouldn't look at them any differently for the guest list than any other friend. So, to me, it depends how close I am to that person. I plan to have a small wedding. If they are one of my closest friends, then I will invite them no matter what they used to mean to me. If my future husband was jealous, that either means one of a few things: I am not over the person, I am not doing a good job of portraying that I am over that person or I have invested time in someone who is overbearing and controlling. If you're starting off a marriage with unnecessary jealousy I am not so sure that's a good sign for the future. I feel that if I were truly over an ex I wouldn’t look at them any differently for the guest list than any other friend. So, to me, it depends how close I am to that person. I plan to have a small wedding. If they are one of my closest friends, then I will invite them no matter what they used to mean to me. If my future husband was jealous, that either means one of a few things: I am not over the person, I am not doing a good job of portraying that I am over that person or I have invested time in someone who is overbearing and controlling. If you’re starting off a marriage with unnecessary jealousy I am not so sure that’s a good sign for the future.

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