With Thanksgiving in front of us and Christmas right around the corner, this time of year can become stressful for those dealing with fitting in to a new family. I’ve heard way too many times that you aren’t just marrying your spouse at your wedding–your marrying their whole family! Here are some links to help you deal with hosting or visiting the in-laws during the holidays:
-Associated Content offers this helpful article on hosting your parents or in-laws for Thanksgiving dinner. Among them, make sure to include recipes from both sides of the family in your dinner so that they both feel equally honored.
-eHow.com has some steps for coping with meddling in-laws. Remember, as hard as it may be, it’s always better to be the bigger person. Respond accordingly!
-Distract your fellow family members with gifts! Reader’s Digest has a list of gift ideas for the in-laws on their blog.
-Yahoo has a list of survival tips for the holidays. At least one of these is sure to work. If not, check out author Dina Koutas Poch’s book”I Heart My In-Laws…” for even more guidance.
-Finally, a personal tip: before you head out or have people over, make sure you and your significant other are on the same page. You have to be able to support one another. Isn’t that what marriage is all about?